I stumbled across this YouTube video by Brad Paisley just a few minutes ago (sorry, but it won’t allow embedding). That got me thinking.
I’ve seen thousands of words written about cyber safety and, in fact, we have someone who’s coming to school in a week to talk about related issues, but no one ever really delves into why kids get online and reveal all kinds of details about themselves that may (or may not) be true.
It’s about significance, I suppose. Online they can be who they want. They can be important, loved (?), wanted or desired for whoever they are or whoever they portray themselves as.
To get the kids to be more careful, I guess they ultimately have to be in a place where they don’t “need” what they’re getting online. While it’s easy (especially in a Christian school like mine) to talk about all the kids being important, loved and special to God, it’s really tough to make sure all the kids feel it. There’s so many tales of broken homes, distorted body image, and all sorts of self destructive behaviors that kids engage in that it’s really mind boggling to know how to spot all the vulnerable kids, let alone take care of them. Even in a Christian school community where home life is comparatively stable, we have to grapple with some pretty awful stuff.
It’s relatively easy to deal with the symptoms of dangerous Internet behavior, but how you catch all those kids searching for significance, it’s something I’m still struggling with.